You may be wondering when babies usually start using words, whether picture books can support language development, or whether it’s normal that your baby isn’t using words yet. Multilingual families in Japan may have an additional question: how do you introduce Japanese sounds without pushing aside the language your family uses most naturally at home?

But reading through that information can end up making you more anxious instead. A child the same age is already saying “mama” and “dada.” Your baby just flips through picture-book pages without listening to the story—though that, too, can be a meaningful way of exploring a book. They seem to enjoy videos, and you find yourself wondering how that affects language development. And in a household where Japanese isn’t the main language, it’s not always clear how to balance Japanese with the language your family communicates in most naturally.

This article treats a baby’s speech not as something to rush, but as something that grows out of parent and child enjoying sound, expression, and repetition together. Alongside guidance drawn from child-development sources, it introduces sound-play ideas developed through TamagoDaruma’s speech picture-book animation project—walking through activities you can do at home, how to use picture books and videos, and where to turn if you’re worried, all at a steady, unhurried pace.

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Picture Book Animations for Early Japanese Speech

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TamagoDaruma’s picture book animation series helps babies and toddlers enjoy Japanese sounds like “pa” and “ma” through original stories, songs, videos, and PDF picture books.

When Do Babies Start Talking? Individual Differences Worth Knowing First

Babies reach spoken language at very different paces. Rather than focusing on age alone, it helps to look at sounds, responses, understanding, and back-and-forth interaction together.

A baby’s spoken words don’t suddenly appear out of nowhere one day. Crying, making sounds, babbling, looking at a parent’s face, pointing, and using gestures to communicate all build up first. Meaningful words grow gradually out of that accumulation.

The NIDCD explains that a child’s speech and language development moves from communication that starts with crying, through responding to voices and sounds around them, babbling, understanding words, and eventually speech. Babbling around 4 to 6 months is given as an example stage where sounds starting with p, b, and m often appear. That doesn’t mean a baby is guaranteed to make those sounds by that exact age—it’s information meant to be read as a general developmental guide.
（参照：Speech and Language Developmental Milestones—NIDCD）

CDC’s developmental milestones similarly frame a child’s development as something to look at across several areas—social and emotional skills, language and communication, learning and thinking, and movement—not just word count alone.
（参照：CDC’s Developmental Milestones—CDC）

Language Development Starts Before the First Word

Hearing the word “talking” tends to make people think of speaking meaningful words. Words used with clear meaning—”mama,” “dada,” “wanwan” (the Japanese baby word for a dog), “no,” “more”—are certainly the easiest kind of speech to recognize.

But before that come stages like making sounds, imitating, responding to a parent’s voice, and communicating through gestures. When a child makes sounds like “mamama” or “papapa,” they may not yet be calling a specific person. Even so, if they’re moving their mouth, making sounds, and watching how people around them respond, that’s an important experience on the way toward language.

What a parent can do matters more than judging whether something “counts” as speech yet—it’s responding to that sound. If a child says “maa,” a parent says “maa” back. If a child laughs, a parent smiles or laughs back and says, “That was fun!” If a child points at a picture, a parent responds with a short, playful “pa!” That small back-and-forth is what builds the foundation for language.

A Milestone Chart Is Meant to Reassure You, Not Pressure You

Milestone charts can be useful, but treating them as strict deadlines may increase a parent’s anxiety. Reading “an 18-month-old should be able to do this” or “a 2-year-old should be talking this much” can lead you to look at the chart more than the child in front of you.

ASHA publishes communication developmental milestones as information for understanding what to generally expect as a child grows. That said, these guidelines aren’t meant for diagnosing anything at home. If something concerns you, it’s safer to use them as a starting point for a conversation at a health checkup, with a medical provider, or with a specialist.
（参照：Communication Milestones—ASHA）

At TamagoDaruma, we think a milestone chart works better as a tool for finding a reason to ask someone, rather than a chart that adds to your worry. If something concerns you, you don’t have to work it out at home alone.

Why Is Sound Play Starting With “Pa” and “Ma” Easy for Parents and Babies to Enjoy Together?

“Pa” and “ma” are sounds where the movement of the mouth is easy to see, which can make them enjoyable to copy together during face-to-face play. Bring them in as a low-pressure way to get familiar with sound, not to rush speech.

TamagoDaruma’s speech picture-book animation project is built around short, approachable sounds for babies and young children, like “pa” and “ma.” It takes a story structured as a picture book and adds songs and animation, expanding it into something a parent and child can enjoy watching, listening to, and voicing together.

What matters here isn’t getting your baby to say “pa” or “ma” quickly. When the focus shifts to whether a baby can repeat a sound correctly, sound play quickly turns into drilling. Once it’s drilling, a parent starts looking for the “right” answer, and the child finds it harder to respond freely.

What we want to create isn’t a test—it’s time together as parent and child. A “pa” pops out, a “maa” stretches on, the parent laughs, and the child laughs too—and that makes you want to make the same sound again. That cycle is at the center of the speech picture-book animation project.

“Pa” and “Ma” Are for Play, Not Practice

The phrase “encouraging speech” needs a little care. Encouraging isn’t the same as rushing. Supporting communication isn’t the same as prompting a child to perform on cue.

NIDCD’s developmental guidance lists sounds like p, b, and m as examples of babbling. These sounds aren’t unique to Japanese—this article uses their Japanese pronunciation and rhythm as an accessible way to play with sound. That doesn’t mean drilling “pa” and “ma” will make speech come earlier, though—there’s no way to say that for certain. We treat “pa” and “ma” as sound play that’s easy for parents and babies to copy together, not as speech training.
（参照：Speech and Language Developmental Milestones—NIDCD）

If a parent repeatedly asks, “Come on, say pa,” “Say ma,” the sound stops being fun for the child and starts feeling like something they have to answer correctly. In sound play, before your child says anything, try making the sound yourself first, and enjoy it out loud.

• Try saying a short “pa”
• Try putting “pa-pa-pa” to a rhythm
• Try stretching out a “maa”
• Try working in everyday sounds like “manma” (baby talk for food) or “ma, ma, ma”

It’s fine if your baby doesn’t imitate the sound. If your child laughs, that’s enough. Even without making a sound, if they’re watching your mouth, swaying along, or responding at the same moment each time, they’re taking part in their own way.

Pictures, Songs, and Movement Make It Easier for a Baby to Join In

Babies and young children don’t learn language from text alone. Looking at a picture, hearing a sound, feeling a rhythm, watching a parent’s expression, and enjoying the same scene again and again—when these cues layer together, a sound stops being just a sound and becomes an experience.

TamagoDaruma’s speech picture-book animation project builds its story and scenes as a 14-page picture book, then adds songs and animation to that world to develop it into a video. It’s currently introduced as a series starting with “pa-pa-pa” and “ma-ma-ma.”

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Picture Book Animations for Early Japanese Speech

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TamagoDaruma’s picture book animation series helps babies and toddlers enjoy Japanese sounds like “pa” and “ma” through original stories, songs, videos, and PDF picture books.

This isn’t simply because a video is easier to get people to watch. In how parents and children actually live today, children encounter stories and songs in several places—paper picture books, videos, PDFs, social media, and shared moments at a childcare center. That’s exactly why we think it’s worth designing around a story that works as a picture book in its own right, then expanding it into song, animation, and PDF formats.

How Can Picture Books Support Early Communication Between Parent and Child?

A picture book isn’t something a baby needs to complete on their own—it’s time spent looking at the same thing together as parent and child. Short sounds, expressions, and repetition are what matter.

Hearing “a picture book that encourages speech” naturally makes you want to expect results. Read this book and they’ll start talking. Repeat this sound and speech will increase. Skip a day and they’ll fall behind. Thinking that way turns picture-book time into something heavy for both parent and child.

At TamagoDaruma, we think of a picture book not as a tool for teaching language, but as time spent looking at the same thing together as parent and child. You don’t need to read every page to the end. You don’t need your child to correctly understand the story.

What matters is noticing and responding to the moments a child reacts. They looked at a picture. They patted the page. They made a sound. They looked at a parent’s face. They laughed at the same scene. A parent responds briefly to that reaction. That’s where an exchange of sound and attention begins.

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Focus on “Echoing Back” Rather Than Reading Well

The first thing worth focusing on when using a picture book to support early communication isn’t reading it skillfully. It’s a parent giving a little something back to their child’s sounds and movements.

• If your child says “ma,” echo back “maa”
• If your child says “pa,” echo back “pa”
• If your child points at a picture, respond with a playful “pa!”
• If your child turns the page, say “You turned the page!”

You don’t need to correct everything your child says. Following up with “no, that’s not it, it’s pa” or “say it again” can turn picture-book time into a search for the right answer.

What we’d suggest is responding rather than evaluating. “I heard that.” “That’s fun.” “Want to look again?” “I heard your maa!” When a parent responds, a child feels that making a sound gets something back. That experience leads to the next sound.

Keep It Short and Repeat It, Rather Than Making One Session Long

Picture books and sound play don’t need to run long to be worthwhile. With babies and toddlers, focus doesn’t always last. Sleepy days, cranky days, days when they just flip pages, days when they stop partway through—all of that is expected.

Rather than deciding “we’ll always read one book every day,” it’s easier to keep up with something short, easygoing, and repeatable. A “pa” after getting dressed in the morning. A “maa” before bath time. Just one page before bed. Watching just one scene of a video and making the same sound together. Even on a day you don’t finish the book, having a moment of sharing sound together is enough.

Comparison Table

The most important thing in this table is not looking for a “correct” answer. A picture book meant to support early speech isn’t for checking off milestones. It’s for sharing sound between parent and child.

Is Screen Time Bad for Language Development? What to Keep in Mind

Rather than leaving it entirely to video, combining it with a parent’s own voice and echoing back makes it easier to use as a starting point for shared sound play.

Video and animation is a topic parents tend to have mixed feelings about. Some may feel “maybe it’s better not to show it,” while also noticing “but my child really responds to it,” or feeling a bit guilty about letting them watch for a little while during housework.

At TamagoDaruma, we don’t think video needs to be dismissed outright. At the same time, we wouldn’t recommend relying on video as the primary source of language interaction either. What matters for speech is a child hearing a sound, responding to it, and having someone respond back. Animation can be the starting point for that. But it can’t fully substitute for parent-child interaction.

Watch Together and Add Your Own Voice

When watching the speech picture-book animation, we’d suggest not just putting on the screen and leaving your child to watch alone. When a “pa” sound comes up in the video, try saying “pa” alongside it. If your child makes a sound, try echoing the same sound back right away. If your child points at the screen, respond with “you found it.”

Just that is enough to stop the video from being a one-way experience. The key is that a parent doesn’t need to be a perfect narrator. Even a quiet voice or just a small laugh is enough for a child to experience it as “watching together.”

It’s Fine to Stop When Your Child Loses Interest

A video or picture book doesn’t have to be watched all the way through. A child might stand up partway through. They might wander off to a different toy. They might want to watch the same scene over and over. They might just look at the pictures without responding to the sound. None of that needs to be read as a failure.

Babies and toddlers respond differently depending on their mood, energy, and how they’re feeling that day. What an adult expects the activity to look like, and what a child actually enjoys, can be two different things. Stop when they lose interest. Watch again when they want to. Just enjoy the parts they respond to. That kind of loose approach is what’s easiest to keep up at home.

Checklist

Use the list below for a light, pressure-free look back at today’s sound play. This checklist isn’t for scoring speech. It’s a note for noticing moments of interaction between parent and child.

• There was a sound my child seemed to like
• They watched my mouth at some point
• After making a sound, they seemed to check my reaction
• They responded when a familiar scene came up in the book or video
• I focused on echoing back rather than making them say it
• I stopped when they lost interest, without pushing to continue
• I noted down anything I was concerned about

For Multilingual Families, How Do You Balance Japanese Sounds With Your Home Language?

For multilingual families, it helps to bring in Japanese as a sound to play with, while keeping your home language or languages at the center.

For multilingual families in Japan, on top of general worries about speech, there’s also uncertainty about which language to choose. Should you speak your home language at home? Should you introduce Japanese early? Is it okay to use Japanese at daycare and a different language at home?

Being raised with more than one language doesn’t, on its own, delay a child’s speech or point to a language disorder. A multilingual child’s words and understanding are often spread across each language, so looking at only one language on its own can make it seem like they know less than they actually do overall. If you have ongoing concerns about your child’s communication, hearing, or understanding, it’s still worth bringing them up with a professional, as covered later in this article.

What matters on this topic is not dismissing your home language. Hold your child, sing to them, and express your feelings in whichever language lets you do that most naturally. On top of that, gradually enjoy Japanese sounds through picture books and songs. We think that order helps preserve warm, natural communication between parent and child.

For multilingual families living in Japan, the Maternal and Child Health Handbook Information Support Site provides information on pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting. If differences in language or systems leave you uncertain, checking a public resource like this can also help.
（参照：If You Become Pregnant in Japan as a Foreign National—Maternal and Child Health Handbook Information Support Site）

Start Japanese as “Sound Play,” Not “Study”

When a multilingual family begins introducing Japanese in everyday life, thinking of it from the start as “getting them to learn Japanese” puts a burden on both parent and child. Especially with babies and toddlers, it’s easier to start by treating Japanese as sound play rather than study.

Short sounds and repetitions like “pa,” “ma,” “ba,” “nenne” (baby talk for sleep), and “manma” (baby talk for food) can be easy to say out loud together even for a parent who isn’t confident in Japanese. Families may enjoy playful Japanese baby words like these, while also using ordinary words naturally in everyday conversation. Your Japanese doesn’t need to be perfect. Engage plenty in your home language at home, and let Japanese come in gradually through picture books, songs, daycare, and community settings. That approach makes it easier to protect a sense of security between parent and child.

You Don’t Need to Cut Back on Your Home Language

Some families worry, “Should we speak only Japanese at home too, so our child picks it up faster?” But trying to engage using only a language you can’t fully express yourself in can end up reducing how much you talk with your child and how much feeling passes between you.

At TamagoDaruma, we don’t start from the assumption that you need to cut back on your home language. There’s time spent engaging comfortably in your home language, and on top of that, “pa” and “ma” sound play serves as an entry point to Japanese sounds. We think that positioning comes across clearly for multilingual families living in Japan.

If You Have Concerns About Speech or Language, Where Should You Turn?

If you have ongoing concerns, don’t try to carry them alone as a family. You can turn to toddler health checkups, a pediatrician, local consultation services, or a speech-language-hearing therapist.

Speech develops on an individual timeline. But being told only “there’s individual variation, so it’s fine” doesn’t always make the worry go away. What a parent needs when they’re concerned isn’t just reassuring words—it’s knowing where to turn if you need to.

The NIDCD recommends talking to your child’s doctor if you have concerns about their speech or language. It also explains that because hearing problems can affect language, an evaluation may include a hearing test.
（参照：Speech and Language Developmental Milestones—NIDCD）

What You Can Bring Up at the 18-Month and 3-Year Checkups

Japan’s Children and Families Agency explains that municipal toddler health checkups are important for understanding a child’s health status and supporting and promoting their health. Under Article 12 of the Maternal and Child Health Act, checkups for 18-month-olds and 3-year-olds are carried out by municipalities.
（参照：Initiatives Related to Toddler Health Checkups—Children and Families Agency）

If speech is on your mind, it’s fine to bring it up at a checkup with something like “it feels like they don’t have many words,” “they seem to understand what I say, but don’t say much themselves,” “they sometimes don’t respond much when I call their name,” or “we use more than one language at home.” You don’t need technical terms. What matters is describing your child’s everyday behavior as it actually is.

What’s Worth Noting Down Before a Consultation

Noting down the following before a consultation can make it easier to talk about.

• Roughly when they started making sounds
• What sounds they make most often
• Whether they use words like “mama” or “dada” with a specific meaning
• Whether they point or use gestures
• Whether they respond when their name is called
• Whether they seem to understand simple things you say
• Which language or languages you use at home
• How they behave outside the home—at daycare, with grandparents, and so on

The Japan Speech-Language-Hearing Association explains that language and hearing difficulties can include hearing impairment, difficulties understanding or using language, and speech difficulties. In a consultation about language, it matters to look not only at “speaking,” but also “hearing” and “understanding.”
（参照：Consulting a Speech-Language-Hearing Therapist—Japan Speech-Language-Hearing Association）

You might be told, “let’s keep an eye on it for now.” Even then, if your worry continues, or if something about their hearing, responsiveness, or understanding still concerns you, it’s reasonable to ask again.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Q. When does a baby’s speech start?

A. It varies from child to child. Some babies say words like “mama” or “dada” around age 1, but rather than judging by age alone, it helps to look at sounds, responses, understanding, and gestures together.

Q. My baby says “mama” and “dada,” but it doesn’t seem to mean anything. Does that count as speech?

A. Early sounds without a clear meaning are still an important experience on the way toward language. Rather than rushing to judge whether it “means” something, what matters more is a parent responding to it.

Q. Does a picture book meant to encourage speech only work if you read it every day?

A. You don’t need to read for a long time every day. What matters is looking at the same picture together and enjoying the sound and expression, even for a short time.

Q. What should I do if my child loses interest while I’m reading to them?

A. It’s fine not to read to the end. Just briefly enjoy the page they looked at, the picture they touched, or the sound they responded to.

Q. Is showing videos or animation bad for speech development?

A. Rather than leaving it entirely to video, combining it with your own voice and echoing back makes it easier to use as a starting point for shared sound play.

Q. Can families where Japanese isn’t the home language still do Japanese sound play?

A. Yes. It’s natural to keep valuing your home language while letting Japanese in gradually as “sound play” rather than “study.”

Q. If I think speech might be delayed, where should I turn?

A. You can start with your municipality’s toddler health checkup, a pediatrician, or a local parenting consultation service. If needed, they may connect you with a specialist such as a speech-language-hearing therapist.

Q. Is it okay to use sounds other than “pa” and “ma”?

A. Yes. Any sound your child responds well to, and that’s easy and fun for you to echo back, works fine as sound play in your own household.

“Pa” and “Ma” Sound Play You Can Start Today

There’s no need to rush speech. Start with a small sound-play activity you can do today, as a brief, enjoyable moment of connection with your child.

To close, here are some “pa” and “ma” sound-play ideas you can do at home. The goal isn’t getting your child to say something correctly. It’s hearing, watching, imitating, and laughing at the same sound together as parent and child. These shared moments matter, whether your child joins in enthusiastically or barely responds that day.

Sound-Play Ideas You Can Do in 3 Minutes

About 3 minutes at a time is enough to start. In “mouth copying,” a parent says a slow, playful “pa” during comfortable face-to-face play. It’s fine if the child just watches. If they respond, say something back like “You were watching!” or “I heard a pa!”

In “one-page picture-book sound play,” open a picture book to just one page, point at a picture, and add a short “maa” or “pa.” When your child turns the page, follow their attention and add a simple sound for the next picture.

You can also try a game where your child joins in just for the last part of a song. A parent sings a short melody—”pa-pa-pa, ma-ma-ma”—and leaves a little pause before the final “pa.” Even if the child doesn’t make a sound, it’s enough if the parent ends it with a laugh.

We’d also suggest finding sounds in daily life. “Manma” before a meal, “pa” when opening a door, “maa” before picking your child up—add a short sound to an everyday action. What matters here is not trying to get your child to say it. A parent simply making the sound in an enjoyable way gives the child another chance to watch, listen, and respond.

Free Download: “Pa and Ma Sound-Play Cards”

Alongside this article, we’ve also put together a free “Pa and Ma Sound-Play Cards” download. Each card includes sounds like “pa,” “pa-pa-pa,” “maa,” “manma,” and “ma, ma, ma,” along with space to jot down today’s sound and the moment your child responded to it.

These cards are meant to be played with together, not used to make a child perform on cue. This English version, “First Japanese Sound Play Sheet: PA / MA,” offers a way to explore Japanese sounds through play while keeping your home language at the center.

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Watch the Speech Picture-Book Animation

TamagoDaruma’s speech picture-book animation project takes an original picture-book series built from short sounds like “pa” and “ma” and develops it into songs and animation. Links to the videos, the finished works, and picture-book PDFs are available as well.

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Picture Book Animations for Early Japanese Speech

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TamagoDaruma’s picture book animation series helps babies and toddlers enjoy Japanese sounds like “pa” and “ma” through original stories, songs, videos, and PDF picture books.

If you’d like to check general speech-development milestones as well, the articles below may help.

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A child’s language isn’t something for a parent to rush toward completion. A child makes a sound. A parent responds. They listen again. They watch again. They laugh again. Within that small back-and-forth is the seed of language.

TamagoDaruma isn’t producing content that claims to speed up speech. What we want is to add more options for parents and children to enjoy sounds together without pressure. A “pa,” a “ma,” or even just a smile that hasn’t turned into a sound yet—all of that is fine. Try starting with just one sound to enjoy together in your time together today.

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For heat-related illness in babies and toddlers, the basic approach is to watch for changes in face color, sweating, behavior, urination, and responsiveness—and when in doubt, stop outdoor play or stroller outings.

Babies and young children can’t fully put “I’m hot,” “I feel sick,” or “I want to stop” into words on their own. That’s exactly why having a set of things to watch for and a clear point at which to stop, decided in advance, is the most important kind of preparation an adult nearby can have.

This article covers heat-related illness warning signs seen in babies and young children ages 0 to 3, criteria for stopping outdoor play on extremely hot days, heat safety for strollers, preventing children from being left in cars, and first-aid steps you can take at home.

This article is not a substitute for medical diagnosis. If a child is not responding normally, is difficult to wake, can’t take in fluids on their own, or isn’t clearly alert, don’t keep watching and waiting at home—call 119 (Japan’s ambulance and fire number) right away.

What Are Heat-Related Illness Warning Signs in Babies? Why Young Children Are More at Risk Than Adults

Warning signs of heat-related illness in babies and young children show up as changes in face color, sweating, behavior, urination, and responsiveness.

A red face, heavy sweating, a listless appearance, and fewer or smaller-volume wet diapers are the main things to watch for. That said, these alone aren’t enough to judge by. You also need to check how they respond when you call their name, whether they can take in fluids on their own, and whether anything looks off in how they walk or hold themselves.

Japan’s Children and Families Agency points out that children are shorter and more exposed to heat reflected off the ground, that they have a harder time voicing that they’re hot or feeling unwell, and that they can lose track of the heat once they’re absorbed in play. Babies in strollers especially may be in a different heat environment than what the parent or caregiver is feeling at standing height.
（参照：Let’s All Watch Out and Prevent “Child Heatstroke”!—Children and Families Agency）

Materials from the Japan Pediatric Society similarly explain that children are more prone to heat-related illness because their body temperature rises easily and they’re often unable to take preventive steps on their own. Dizziness, fainting, headache, nausea, listlessness, not responding when called, difficulty walking straight, and a high body temperature are listed as symptoms that suggest possible heatstroke.
（参照：Preventable Childhood Injuries and Countermeasures: Heatstroke—Japan Pediatric Society）

Easy-to-Miss Signs at Different Ages

Even lumped together as “babies and toddlers,” the signs that are easy to miss change by age. These age groups are only a general guide—a child’s usual behavior matters as much as their age. For babies under 1, watch their crying and feeding; around age 1, their behavior and the way they walk; for 2- to 3-year-olds, whether they keep playing without slowing down, even while saying they’re “fine.”

The older a child gets, the more tempting it is to rely on what they say. But even at 2 or 3, accurately describing their own condition is genuinely difficult. Even if they say “I want to keep playing,” if you notice a red face, a blank or dazed look, unsteadiness, or slow responses, the adult should stop the activity and move the child somewhere cool.

4 Things to Watch For to Notice “Something’s Different”

Checking face color, sweating, behavior, and urine before heading out, during the outing, and after coming home makes it easier to catch a change.

Trying to memorize every possible warning sign tends to make you more anxious, not less. In everyday life, it’s more realistic to narrow down what you’re watching for, so you can notice when something is different.

• Face color: Watch for changes like redness, paleness, or a dazed look
• Sweating: Watch for either heavy sweating or, despite the heat, unusually little sweat combined with a child who seems unwell
• Behavior: Watch for sudden fussiness, a listless state, or losing interest in play
• Urine: If diapers are less wet than usual or urination is less frequent, watch for dehydration

Japan’s Children and Families Agency explains that when a child’s face is red and they’re sweating heavily, their core body temperature may already be significantly elevated, making it important to let them rest fully in a cool environment.
（参照：Let’s All Watch Out and Prevent “Child Heatstroke”!—Children and Families Agency）

It’s easier to keep up if you split the timing of these checks into three points: before heading out, during breaks while you’re out, and right after getting home. Deciding to “check at set points” rather than “watch constantly” is the more realistic approach for day-to-day parenting.

What’s the Cutoff for Stopping Outdoor Play or Walks? Deciding by WBGT

For outdoor play with babies and toddlers, the decision should factor in WBGT together with the child’s condition, not just the air temperature.

What matters on an extremely hot day isn’t asking “can we go outside if we take precautions,” but first asking “is today actually a day for outdoor play at all.”

WBGT, or Wet Bulb Globe Temperature—a heat-stress index used internationally, not something specific to Japan—factors in humidity and radiant heat from sunlight along with air temperature, as a measure for heat-illness prevention. Japan’s Ministry of the Environment runs a heatstroke prevention information site where you can check the current WBGT reading by region.
（参照：About the Heat Index (WBGT)—Ministry of the Environment Heatstroke Prevention Information Site）

The Ministry of the Environment’s own exercise guidelines classify a WBGT of 31 or higher as “dangerous,” at which point exercise should, as a rule, stop entirely—especially for children. TamagoDaruma’s editorial team applies this exercise guideline to outdoor play decisions for babies and toddlers as well, erring on the side of caution, and treats a WBGT of 31 or higher as the general threshold for stopping outdoor play.
（参照：Heatstroke Environmental Health Manual—Ministry of the Environment）

This table was put together by TamagoDaruma’s editorial team for outdoor play decisions with babies and toddlers, based on the Ministry of the Environment’s own heat-illness prevention exercise guidelines—it isn’t an official pediatric standard. The official exercise guidelines themselves don’t set a uniform “walk time” for babies and toddlers. In practice, base your decision on WBGT together with the child’s condition, sleep, appetite, distance to be covered, availability of shade, and how closely the caregiver can supervise—and stop earlier than WBGT 31 if the child seems unwell, sleep-deprived, or is feeding poorly, even on a day that doesn’t reach that threshold. Keep in mind, too, that the air right around a stroller seat can be hotter than the WBGT reading for your general area.

What Should You Do on a Day With a Heatstroke Alert?

A Heatstroke Alert is information issued in Japan when the risk of heat-related illness is predicted to become extremely high, calling attention to dangerous heat and urging preventive action. When the risk is even higher, a Heatstroke Special Alert is issued instead.
（参照：Heatstroke Alert—Ministry of the Environment Heatstroke Prevention Information Site）

For households with babies and toddlers, it’s more realistic to treat a day with an alert as a reason to reconsider or cancel outdoor plans, not simply as a reminder to be more careful. Consider canceling or significantly shortening outdoor play, park visits, long walks, and stroller trips in direct sun.

If you absolutely need to go out, prepare by keeping it to a short window in the early morning or evening, choosing an indoor route where possible, checking ahead for a place to cool off near your destination, and regularly checking for trapped heat in the stroller or baby carrier.

How to Spend a Day Without Going Outside

A day when you cancel outdoor play doesn’t need to become “a sad day” for your child. Choosing not to go outside on an extremely hot day isn’t neglecting your parenting duties—it’s a safe choice made to protect your child.

For babies and 1-year-olds, gentle touch games, picture books, sound play, fabric play, and rolling a ball are good fits. For 2- to 3-year-olds, an indoor obstacle course, sticker play, simple crafts, hand-clapping games, and a short dance session can offer a change of pace.

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生まれてから1歳を迎える頃までの間に、目覚ましい成長をとげる赤ちゃん。そんな赤ちゃんの運動能力や情緒面での成長を後押しするために欠かせないのが「遊び」です。0歳児の赤ちゃんにとって、「遊び」は単なる「遊び」ではありません。遊びによって、赤ちゃんは世界を知り、また新たな世界に自分から踏み入れるのです。

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A day you can’t go outside tends to build up stress for the parent as well as the child. You don’t need to try to make playtime perfect. In a safe indoor environment, prioritize creating even a small window of time for a change of pace.

What’s Dangerous About Strollers in Extreme Heat? Steps You Can Start Today

Because strollers sit close to the ground and are more exposed to reflected heat, prioritize shade, airflow, and short travel times.

Search for “stroller heat safety tips” and you’ll find plenty of information about ice packs, portable fans, cooling sheets, and sunshades. Using these tools well obviously matters.

That said, we think it’s risky to make choosing the right gear the whole center of stroller heat safety. The first questions to ask are whether you actually need to be out with the stroller at that time of day, how quickly you can get back to somewhere cool, whether you can see your child’s face, and whether heat is building up inside.

Materials from the Japan Pediatric Society list strollers—because of heat reflected off the ground—as one of the environments where heat-related illness is more likely.
（参照：Preventable Childhood Injuries and Countermeasures: Heatstroke—Japan Pediatric Society）

• Shorten travel time: Avoid long-distance walks on extremely hot days
• Choose shaded or indoor routes: Reduce direct sun and reflected heat
• Keep the child’s face visible: Don’t drape a sunshade or cloth over the stroller in a way that blocks airflow or your view of the child
• Check sweat on the back and neck: Check whether heat is building up on the seat
• Treat gear as a supplement: Don’t assume ice packs or a fan alone make things safe

Cooling Products That Need Extra Caution

Many families use cooling gear as a heat-safety measure. But depending on how it’s used, it can lead to a different kind of accident.

The Tokyo Metropolitan Government’s Kodomo Safety Project explains that a cooling sheet applied to the forehead can shift and end up covering a baby’s nose or mouth, and that neck-wrap cooling gear can risk constricting an infant’s neck—which is why it advises against fastening either type of product on infants.
（参照：Protecting Children From Heatstroke—Tokyo Kodomo Safety Project）

Cooling the body itself is an effective measure, but getting “where” and “how” you apply it wrong can turn a heat-safety step into a different kind of danger. When using an ice pack, avoid direct, prolonged contact with the skin—wrap it in a towel or similar, and check the skin often, stopping if it looks very pale or feels unusually cold.

What About Baby Carriers?

A baby carrier isn’t close to the ground the way a stroller is. On the other hand, because it presses the child close against the adult’s body, heat can build up more easily, and the child is more exposed to the caregiver’s own body heat and sweat—something worth paying attention to.

If you use a baby carrier on an extremely hot day, dress both yourself and the baby in lightweight, breathable clothing, regularly check your child’s face color and sweat, avoid long continuous stretches of use, and take breaks in an air-conditioned space.

Neither a stroller nor a baby carrier can be called categorically safer at all times. It’s more realistic to choose between them based on travel distance, road conditions, your child’s age and development, and your own condition.

Never Leave a Child in the Car, Even for “Just a Few Minutes”—Why It Happens and How to Prevent It

Don’t leave a child alone in the car even briefly, and always check the back seat before you walk away.

The danger inside a car doesn’t happen because a parent doesn’t love their child enough. It happens as an extension of ordinary life—being busy, a mistaken assumption, not wanting to wake a sleeping child, planning to be back in a few minutes, accidental lock-ins or misplaced keys, or simply forgetting to check.

Japan’s Consumer Affairs Agency calls for never leaving a child alone in a car even briefly, and for being careful about being locked in due to keys left behind or accidental operation.
（参照：Protect Children From Accidents! Project Vol. 593—Consumer Affairs Agency）

Japan’s Children and Families Agency similarly notes that children have been left behind even in family cars, that a child should absolutely never be left alone in a car even briefly, and that if you come across a child who’s been left in a car, you should report it to the police and fire department.
（参照：Let’s All Watch Out and Prevent “Child Heatstroke”!—Children and Families Agency）

The prevention step a household can actually take isn’t relying on willpower—it’s turning the check into the same physical habit every single time.

• Before getting out of the car, always open the back-seat door
• Put something you need in the back seat, so checking it becomes part of your routine
• Send a quick message to family after each drop-off or pickup
• Make “never leave a child alone in the car” a household rule
• Don’t leave keys within a child’s reach or inside the car

Not “it’ll be fine today,” but “check every single time.” On the days you’re tired, in a hurry, or your plans have changed, having a system in place is exactly what helps.

What to Do If You Think It Might Be Heatstroke: First Aid and When to Call 119

Move to a cool place, loosen their clothing, and cool the body down. If they’re not responding normally or can’t drink, call 119 immediately.

If you think a child might have heatstroke, the first thing to do is get them away from the hot environment. Move them to a cool place first—an air-conditioned room or a well-ventilated shaded spot.

Japan’s Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare identifies moving to a cool place, loosening clothing to cool the body, and rehydrating as first-aid steps when heatstroke is suspected. For first aid, cool the sides of the neck, the armpits, and the groin using a wrapped cold pack or a cool, wet cloth.
（参照：If You Encounter Someone With Suspected Heatstroke: First Aid—Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare）

• Move to a cool place
• Loosen their clothing
• Cool the neck, armpits, and groin
• If they’re clearly alert and able to drink, have them take fluids little by little
• If they’re not responding normally or can’t drink on their own, call 119 immediately

Don’t give anything by mouth if a child isn’t clearly alert or isn’t responding well when called. The Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare advises calling an ambulance right away if a child can’t drink water on their own or isn’t conscious—these are signs that call for 119, not a wait-and-see approach.
（参照：If You Encounter Someone With Suspected Heatstroke: First Aid—Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare）

If your child is responsive and drinking normally, but you’re unsure on a weekend or at night whether a symptom needs medical attention, Japan’s child medical telephone consultation service, #8000, is another option—for situations short of the emergency signs above, not as a substitute for them. The Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare describes #8000 as a system that lets you call and consult with a pediatrician or nurse by phone about how to handle a child’s symptoms outside regular hours, and whether a hospital visit is needed.
（参照：For a Child’s Symptoms, Call #8000—Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare）

Similarly, if your child is responsive but you’re unsure whether to call an ambulance, #7119 may be available depending on where you live. The Fire and Disaster Management Agency describes #7119 as a system for getting phone advice when you’re unsure whether to call an ambulance or go to the hospital right away. Since it’s only available in certain areas, check whether it covers where you live—and remember that for the emergency signs described above, 119 comes first.
（参照：What Is the Emergency Safety Center Service (#7119)?—Fire and Disaster Management Agency）

On Extremely Hot Days, Changing Your Plans Is Also a Safety Measure

On days you can’t go outside, it matters to use indoor play, splitting duties within the family, and temporary childcare, rather than carrying everything alone as a parent.

What’s hard about parenting on an extremely hot day is that even when you know it’s safer not to go outside, daily life doesn’t stop. Grocery shopping, driving an older child to and from activities, daycare drop-off and pickup, doctor visits, work, and a child with restless energy stuck indoors—you can’t get through it all on principle alone.

That’s exactly why extreme-heat precautions need to include not just “staying hydrated,” but also “how to rearrange your schedule.”

On days you absolutely need to go out, it helps to have more options ready: getting errands done early in the morning, avoiding walking in direct sun, choosing a route through somewhere cool like a train station or shopping center, splitting responsibilities if another caregiver can take a turn, and considering delivery services or temporary childcare where it’s available.

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A Pre-Outing Extreme-Heat Checklist for Babies and Toddlers

Having a checklist you spend just 30 seconds on before heading out makes your judgment more consistent on extremely hot days.

You don’t need to prepare everything perfectly every time. But on an extremely hot day, a small check can help you make a clearer, more consistent decision. It helps to share the items below with family, grandparents, and childcare providers too.

At TamagoDaruma, we place importance on shaping checklists like this into a form that’s easy to use both at home and in childcare settings. For childcare and family-support facilities, this can also be developed into a “hot-day drop-off and outdoor play check sheet” to hand out to parents, or a “prevent leaving children in cars” poster for display on-site.

For information on content and printed materials for organizations and facilities, see the page below.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Here are answers to the questions parents tend to have about hydration, walk timing, ice packs, waiting in the car, and emergency consultation.

Q1. What are the early warning signs of heat-related illness in a baby?

Watch for changes in face color, sweating, behavior, urination, and responsiveness. A red face, heavy sweating, a listless appearance, and less urine are the main signs, but also check how they respond when called and whether they can take in fluids.

Q2. If a child is sweating, does that mean they don’t have heat-related illness?

Heat-related illness is still possible even if a child is sweating. If you notice heavy sweating along with a red face, listlessness, fussiness, or slower responses, move them to a cool place and check how they’re doing.

Q3. At what point should you stop walks or outdoor play?

Decide by WBGT, not air temperature alone. A WBGT of 31 or higher is classified as “dangerous,” at which point exercise should stop as a rule, especially for children. For babies and toddlers, treat a WBGT of 31 or higher as the cue to stop outdoor play, erring on the side of caution—and stop earlier if your child seems unwell, regardless of the reading.

Q4. Should you cancel walks on a day with a Heatstroke Alert?

For babies and toddlers, consider canceling or significantly shortening outdoor time. If you absolutely need to go out, prioritize a short duration, shade, and having an indoor place to retreat to.

Q5. In extreme heat, which is safer—a stroller or a baby carrier?

Both have their own risks. A stroller sits close to the ground and picks up reflected heat, while a baby carrier’s close contact traps heat—so choose based on travel distance and how your child is doing.

Q6. How should ice packs or cooling sheets be used during first aid, and are they safe for infants?

For cooling the body, target areas like around the neck, the armpits, and the groin, using a wrapped cold pack or a cool, wet cloth. Separately, be careful with forehead cooling sheets and neck-wrap cooling gear marketed for everyday use—these carry a risk of shifting out of place or constricting an infant’s neck, and shouldn’t be fastened onto a baby.

Q7. Is it okay to leave a child in the car for just a few minutes?

No. Never leave a child alone in the car, even briefly. Make it a habit to always check the back seat when you get out of the car.

Q8. If you suspect heatstroke, when should you call an ambulance?

Call 119 immediately if a child doesn’t respond when called, isn’t clearly alert, or can’t drink water on their own. If your child is responsive and you’re only unsure whether medical care is needed, that’s when #8000 or #7119 are worth using instead.

Q9. Do breastfed or formula-fed babies need extra fluids?

This depends on age and condition, so don’t decide on a blanket rule yourself—consult your child’s doctor or your local public health nurse. On hot days, pay close attention to changes like poor feeding, reduced urine, or a listless state.

Q10. If you stay indoors, is there no risk of heat-related illness?

Heat-related illness can happen indoors too. Use air conditioning and fans appropriately even inside, and check for changes in your child’s face color, sweating, behavior, and urine.

In Summary

Babies and young children can’t fully tell you they feel overheated or unwell. That’s exactly why it matters for the adult nearby to have a set of things to watch—face color, sweating, behavior, urine, and responsiveness—and to decide whether outdoor play is okay using WBGT and the Heatstroke Alert, not just a general sense of the weather.

Extreme-heat precautions for babies and toddlers aren’t about seeing how much heat a child can tolerate. Stopping early, moving somewhere cool, changing your plans, relying on someone else—these decisions are also part of parenting to protect your child.

At TamagoDaruma, we want to offer information that goes beyond ending with “be careful”—decision-making material that parents and childcare providers can actually use in the moments they’re genuinely unsure. Whether you decide to go outside or not, if it’s a decision you made using a clear standard, it’s not something to be blamed for. We hope this article can serve as a practical guide for reading how the child in front of you is doing this summer, and for deciding when to stop, cool down, or seek help.

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You tell yourself it’s “for your child’s own good”—and then find yourself getting too involved in their homework, or becoming increasingly involved in their friendships or decisions about their future. Have you ever caught yourself doing this and felt a flicker of unease about it?

That’s not unusual at all. You worry because you care. You want to step in ahead of time because you don’t want your child to fail. Parental love is often mixed with fear, urgency, frustration, and uncertainty.

But that feeling of “for my child’s good” can, without you noticing, drift toward wanting your child’s choices to follow the path you prefer. That’s where the difficulty in parent-child relationships lives.

Erich Fromm’s classic “The Art of Loving” isn’t a parenting book. But what it has to say about the nature of love offers a lot to think about when it comes to reexamining the parent-child relationship. Working through the core ideas of “The Art of Loving” from a parenting angle, this article looks at where love ends and control begins, what it means not to possess your child, and reflection questions for reconsidering overprotective habits.

What Is “The Art of Loving” About?

“The Art of Loving” is Fromm’s best-known work, arguing that love isn’t simply a feeling but something to be learned, practiced, and trained in over time.

“The Art of Loving” is Erich Fromm’s book-length work on the nature of love. Kinokuniya, a major Japanese bookseller, lists Erich Fromm as the author and Sho Suzuki as the Japanese translator for the Japanese-language edition; details on current print editions can vary depending on when you buy it, so check the publisher’s or bookseller’s most recent listing before buying or citing the book.
（参照：The Art of Loving (Japanese Edition)—Kinokuniya）

The title itself makes the point: “art,” in the sense Fromm means it, isn’t fine art but a skill—something practiced, trained, and improved over time, the way you’d talk about the art of cooking or the art of conversation. That framing sits at the center of the book: love isn’t simply a feeling that wells up on its own, but something learned, practiced, and worked at.

Applied to parenting, this view is a practical one. Becoming a parent doesn’t come with an instant, fully-formed way of loving well. Living day to day with a child, a parent runs into their own anxiety, anger, impatience, expectations, and guilt again and again—and learns how to love, too, along the way.

Who Was Erich Fromm?

Erich Fromm is known as one of the 20th century’s leading psychoanalysts and social psychologists. HarperCollins, the English-language publisher of “The Art of Loving,” introduces him as a psychoanalyst and social philosopher whose book examines the impact love has on a person’s life.
（参照：The Art of Loving—HarperCollins）

What set Fromm apart is that he didn’t treat love as simply a romantic feeling. He saw it as deeply tied to personality, society, human loneliness, freedom, and independence.

That’s why “The Art of Loving” continues to be read not just as a book about romantic love, but as one that speaks to parent-child relationships, marriage, relationships at work, and how a person relates to themselves.

How Does Fromm Define Love?

For Fromm, love isn’t about possessing another person—it’s an active stance that supports their growth and freedom.

Fromm treats love as separate from simply “liking” someone, or wanting to make them your own. What matters is the stance of genuinely trying to know the other person, caring for them, taking responsibility, and respecting them.

Applied to parenting, this becomes an important question to sit with.

Parents worry about their children. They want good things for their child’s future. They want to help so their child doesn’t struggle. But when that feeling grows too strong, it can turn into moving a child’s will and choices around for the sake of the parent’s own peace of mind.

This is where it helps to draw a distinction between responsibility and control.

• Responsibility means providing the protection, guidance, and support a child needs for their safety and growth.
• Control means directing a child’s choices mainly to relieve the parent’s own anxiety or match the parent’s ideals.

The two can look alike from the outside. Even a simple “do your homework” can either support a child’s daily routine, or push a parent’s own anxiety onto the child.

The same words land differently depending on the stance behind them.

Growth-Supporting Involvement and Controlling Involvement

Applying Fromm’s thinking to parenting, it helps to think of everyday parental involvement along a spectrum—from growth-supporting on one end to controlling on the other.

What’s meant here by growth-supporting involvement isn’t directing a child according to the parent’s wishes, but involvement that supports the child growing into who they are. Controlling involvement, on the other hand, tries to steer a child for the sake of the parent’s own peace of mind, expectations, or ideals.

Of course, what’s needed changes with a child’s age, development, and family circumstances. Respecting a child doesn’t mean asking a young child to make major decisions without age-appropriate guidance. In situations involving safety or health, a parent needs to draw a clear line.

What matters is pausing to ask, just once, before you speak up: Is this for the child’s sake, or is it to ease my own worry?

Mature Love and Blurred Parent-Child Boundaries

Fromm draws a distinction between mature love and relationships built on dependency, where two people remain psychologically fused rather than relating as separate individuals. Mature love is a bond where each person stands as a separate individual while still being connected. In more dependent relationships, the boundary between self and other tends to blur.

In the parent-child relationship, this boundary is especially hard to hold. While a child is young, a parent supports most of daily life—meals, sleep, getting dressed, getting to school or childcare, illness, keeping them safe. There’s a lot a parent has to be involved in.

But as children grow, they gradually become more independent from their parents. They build up experience choosing for themselves, making mistakes, and thinking things through on their own.

That process can come with loneliness and anxiety for a parent. Even so, a child becoming psychologically independent from their parent doesn’t mean love is fading. If anything, it can be seen as the process by which a parent’s love stays with the child as a foundation, and turns into the child’s own strength.

Why Are Love and Control So Easily Confused in Parenting?

A parent’s love and a parent’s control both start from intense concern for the child, which is exactly why they’re easy to mix up in everyday life.

Overprotection doesn’t necessarily come from a cold or distant parent. If anything, a parent who cares deeply about their child can sometimes come closer to overprotecting them.

“I don’t want them to fail.” “I don’t want them to get hurt.” “I don’t want them to struggle later in life.” All of these are common and understandable parental concerns. But when they grow too strong, a parent can end up taking away a child’s chance to have those experiences and make those choices in the first place.

Children learn through small failures. Choosing for themselves, and having it not work out, is what builds the ability to think through what to do next.

This doesn’t mean simply watching and waiting through dangerous situations, of course. Anything involving life, health, or safety is something an adult needs to step in and stop. But if a parent removes every possible failure, the child loses the chance to think for themselves.

A Personal Note on Overprotection

Social media and parenting information sites are full of things parents worry about—early education, extracurricular activities, school and career paths, daily habits, smartphone use, friendships. More information can help, but it also tends to add to the worry of “is my family doing okay, or falling behind?”

That’s exactly why, when taking in this kind of information, it helps to use it to open up more conversation with your child—rather than to manage them more closely.

Comparison Table: Where Caring Ends and Overprotection Begins

The difference between deep care and overprotection comes into focus when you ask whether an action protects the child, or reduces the parent’s own anxiety.

This table isn’t meant to place blame on parents. It’s a tool for looking at your own involvement a little more objectively.

Noticing “that might have been control” isn’t a bad thing. Noticing it creates an opportunity to respond differently next time.

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What Does It Mean Not to “Possess” Your Child?

A parent-child relationship that doesn’t possess the child isn’t about a parent giving up responsibility—it’s about protecting their safety while recognizing the child’s own will and personhood.

The phrase “not possessing your child” might sound a little strong. But it’s a genuinely important lens for thinking about the parent-child relationship.

Parents are often among the people closest to a child. That’s exactly why their grades, clothes, way of speaking, friends, and future can start to feel like reflections of the parent.

But a child is not an extension of the parent, and their life is not a chance for the parent to redo their own. A parent’s hopes and a child’s life overlap in places, but they never fully align.

Accepting that gap is the first step toward a parent-child relationship that doesn’t possess the child.

Japan’s Children and Families Agency explains that the country’s Basic Act on Children sets out basic principles for children’s policy, the drafting of a national outline for children’s measures, and reflecting children’s own views in policy. Family life obviously can’t be reduced to what a law says, but the underlying idea—taking a child’s own perspective seriously—is one worth carrying into the home too.
（参照：Basic Act on Children—Children and Families Agency）

Article 12 of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child, published on Japan’s Ministry of Foreign Affairs site, states that a child capable of forming their own views has the right to express those views freely on any matter affecting them, and that those views should be given due weight according to the child’s age and maturity.
（参照：Full Text of the Convention on the Rights of the Child—Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Japan）

This doesn’t mean giving in to everything a child says. What matters is holding onto a posture of taking the child’s views seriously on things that concern them.

How Much Should Parents Influence Education, Career Choices, and Friendships?

A child’s education, career choices, and friendships are areas where a lot of parents feel the urge to weigh in. They’re also areas that matter for a child’s growing autonomy.

When it comes to education and career choices, it’s important for a parent to gather information. Laying out the options matters too. Sharing financial constraints, commuting distance, or family circumstances is also part of a parent’s responsibility.

But if the direction gets decided by the parent’s wishes alone, without ever asking how the child feels, it becomes harder for the child to develop a sense that they’re choosing their own life.

The same goes for friendships. If there are signs of bullying, violence, exploitation, or other dangerous behavior, an adult needs to step in. On the other hand, managing a child’s friendships too closely based only on the parent’s own preferences or values can limit the child’s chances to develop judgment, resolve conflict, and learn from relationships.

Before you speak up, try checking these three things:

• Is this a matter of safety or health?
• Have I asked how my child actually feels about it?
• Is this intervention only about reducing my own anxiety?

Respecting a child isn’t the same as being permissive. It’s holding a boundary as a parent while still leaving room for the child to choose.

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How Can You Check Whether You’re Being Overprotective?

The first step in reconsidering overprotection isn’t blaming yourself—it’s sorting out whether your everyday words to your child are for the child’s sake, or for easing your own anxiety.

The word “overprotective” can land heavily on a parent. Some may feel, “Am I making my child suffer?” or “Am I getting the way I love them wrong?”

But self-criticism isn’t what’s needed here. What matters is getting back to a place where you can reconsider just one moment of today’s involvement.

A parent doesn’t need to be perfect. If anything, the harder you try to be perfect, the more likely you are to demand perfection from your child too.

Parenting Reflection Checklist (Free Download)

The checklist below is for reflecting on whether your involvement is “love” or “relieving your own anxiety.” Having items that apply to you isn’t something to see as bad in itself. Pick one item that stands out, and use it as a starting point for responding a little differently the next time a similar situation comes up.

• I sometimes answer or decide for my child before giving them time to respond
• I feel a strong urge to weigh in on my child’s friendships
• When I see my child about to struggle with something, I quickly step in, take over, or tell them what to do
• I sometimes impose my own expectations on my child’s education or career path
• I often limit my child’s behavior by saying “I’m just worried,” without always examining why
• I sometimes share my own opinion before asking what my child wants
• I feel a vague anxiety about my child growing more independent of me
• I do not always reconnect or apologize after I’ve spoken too harshly
• I praise only the results and overlook the process or effort behind them
• I notice my own words getting sharper when I’m too exhausted

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This checklist isn’t meant to be scored. It’s not a tool for ranking parent-child relationships either. It works best saved or printed, and used as a “pause and reflect” note you come back to now and then.

Before saying something to your child, try checking just these three things:

• Is this about safety or health?
• Are these words only about reducing my own anxiety?
• Can I leave room for my child to choose?

These three questions aren’t a magic fix for the parent-child relationship. But they can help create a brief pause before frustration turns into harsh words.

That said, if you can’t hold back strong anger, can’t stop yourself from using corporal punishment or verbal abuse, or find it painful just to be with your child, please don’t try to carry that alone through reading or self-checking. It can help to talk to your child’s pediatrician, a local family support or parenting consultation service, or—if you’re in Japan—your municipal government’s childcare consultation counter or the Children and Families Agency. Japan’s Children and Families Agency explains that a legal ban on parents using corporal punishment when disciplining a child took effect in April 2020. Corporal punishment and denying a child’s personhood can’t be justified under the words “love” or “discipline.”
（参照：For Child-Rearing Without Corporal Punishment—Children and Families Agency）

Parents are also allowed to reach out for support. Protecting a child also means the parent not becoming isolated.

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The hardest stages of parenting aren't determined by your child's age alone. While the 0–3 period and the transition into elementary school tend to pile on the pressure, what makes any given phase feel unbearable varies enormously — depending on how much sleep you're getting, whether you feel isolated, how work is going, and what support you have at home."I'm almost at my limit." "I just need to be alone." "I need a break." If those thoughts b...

Frequently Asked Questions

“The Art of Loving” isn’t a parenting book, but it offers a deep frame of reference for reconsidering how you relate to your child.

Q1. What kind of book is “The Art of Loving”?

It’s a book by Erich Fromm, known as a psychoanalyst and social psychologist, arguing that love is something learned and practiced rather than simply a feeling. It’s read not only as a book about romantic love, but as a work of thought on relationships in general.

Q2. Fromm says love is a skill, not a talent—what does that mean?

It’s the idea that love isn’t something you’re simply born with, and not just a feeling that wells up naturally either—it’s something built through care, responsibility, respect, and the effort of trying to know the other person.

Q3. What’s the key point when applying this to parenting?

The key is respecting the child as a person in their own right, rather than someone to be shaped to the parent’s wishes, and supporting their growth accordingly.

Q4. What’s the difference between overprotection and being deeply caring?

Deeply caring involvement supports a child’s safety and growth. Overprotection tends to take away a child’s choices and experiences instead, mainly to ease the parent’s own anxiety.

Q5. What does it actually mean not to “possess” your child?

It means recognizing that your child’s opinions, choices, and future ultimately belong to them—even when they differ from your own thinking—and not treating their education, career, or friendships as a way to fulfill the parent’s own ideals.

Q6. Isn’t respecting a child the same as spoiling them or being permissive?

No. Respect means taking a child’s feelings and opinions into account in a way that fits their age and development. Being permissive means failing to provide the protection or boundaries a child needs. In situations involving safety or health, an adult needs to step in and stop them.

Q7. Does setting firm limits contradict love?

Setting firm limits doesn’t contradict love. Dangerous behavior, or behavior that hurts someone else, needs to be stopped. That said, denying a child’s personhood, verbal abuse, corporal punishment, or forcing obedience through fear can’t be justified as love.

Q8. What age of child is this book relevant for parents of?

The book itself isn’t a parenting guide aimed at a specific age. Because of that, it has something to offer parents at any stage—from infancy through adolescence and beyond—who want to reconsider their distance and involvement with their child.

“The Art of Loving” offers a perspective: love isn’t just a feeling that shows up on its own—it’s something built through care, responsibility, respect, and attention.

In parenting too, there’s value in pausing every so often to check whether worry and love have quietly turned into control or possession.

There’s no need to be a perfect parent. What matters is the ongoing effort to keep respecting your child as their own person.

Loving a child isn’t the same as making them go the way you want. It means gradually giving them the support, judgment, and freedom they need to live a life of their own.

At TamagoDaruma, our aim with questions like these isn’t to place blame on parents—it’s to help parents and children feel a little more at ease.

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In this guide, Tamago Daruma outlines the current landscape of LGBTQ+ support in Japanese schools as of 2026. We provide practical steps for parents to collaborate with school staff and build a secure, inclusive environment for their children.

1. What School Support Looks Like in 2026

In 2026, Japanese schools are demonstrating a wider variety of responses to support transgender and LGBTQ+ students. Guided by national and local government policies, schools are increasingly expected to have a coordinated support system in place across the school, rather than leaving accommodations up to the discretion of individual teachers.

Gender Identity in the MEXT “Student Guidance Manual”

The foundation for current school protocols is the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology’s (MEXT) revised “Student Guidance Manual.” Chapter 12, Section 4, specifically outlines careful, individualized support for students facing difficulties related to their gender identity or sexual orientation.
Based on this manual, local municipalities are actively training teachers and distributing educational materials to ensure staff provide guidance rooted in accurate knowledge.
(Source: MEXT: Student Guidance Manual (Revised) *Chapter 12: Understanding Sexual Minorities and School Responses)

How Japanese Schools Are Responding Under the “LGBT Understanding Promotion Act”

The “Act on the Promotion of Public Understanding of Diversity of Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity” (passed in 2023) provided a clearer policy basis for schools to deepen understanding within educational settings. Through official guidelines, MEXT encourages schools to form collaborative “support teams”—involving the principal, school nurse, and school counselor—so that homeroom teachers do not have to manage these situations alone.
(Source: MEXT: Notice on the Promulgation of the LGBT Understanding Promotion Act)

2. Practical Examples of School Accommodations and Recent Trends

What do these accommodations look like in daily school life? Here are some concrete examples of how schools are adapting, which can serve as a helpful reference when discussing your child’s needs with school administrators.

The Rise of “Genderless” Uniform Options

The traditional landscape of junior high and high school uniforms is shifting. According to a 2025 survey report by Kanko Student Uniforms, a growing number of schools are introducing slacks for female students and adopting “genderless” uniform systems that allow students to mix and match items regardless of their assigned sex.
The same survey revealed that about 70% of high school students responded positively to skirt options in boys’ uniforms, indicating a strong level of peer acceptance. It is becoming increasingly common for families to successfully request uniform adjustments before enrollment or during the school year.
(Source: Kanko Student Uniforms: High School Students’ Attitudes Toward “Genderless Uniforms”)

Alleviating Stress in Restrooms and Changing Rooms

Restrooms and locker rooms are frequently the most stressful environments for transgender students. MEXT guidelines outline practical solutions, such as granting permission to use multipurpose (accessible) restrooms, allowing students to change in the nurse’s office or a separate room, or permitting them to change at staggered times. As schools undergo facility renovations, many are proactively installing multipurpose restrooms to offer flexible options tailored to individual needs.

Use of Chosen Names and Gender-Neutral Rosters

Small adjustments in the classroom can significantly impact a child’s sense of safety.

• Names and Honorifics: Many schools now allow students to use a “chosen name” (tsusho-mei) that aligns with their gender identity. Additionally, schools are increasingly adopting the gender-neutral honorific “san” for all students, regardless of gender.
• School Rosters: There is a strong shift toward mixed-gender rosters sorted strictly in alphabetical (gojuon) order, as well as the removal of unnecessary gender checkboxes on internal school forms.

Accommodations for P.E., School Trips, and Overnight Events

• P.E. and Swimming: Schools frequently allow students to wear rash guards during swimming lessons and take the student’s preferences into account when dividing classes for gender-separated activities.
• Overnight Trips: For school excursions, it is now increasingly common for schools to consult with students to arrange private rooms, assign them to comfortable peer groups, or schedule private bathing times.

3. [For Parents] How Parents Can Talk to Schools Safely and Effectively

Approaching the school requires a careful, methodical strategy. Here are the steps to build a cooperative relationship with educators while strictly respecting your child’s autonomy.

Step 1: Open Dialogue and Support at Home

According to research by the certified NPO ReBit, many transgender and LGBTQ+ teens struggle with intense feelings of isolation.
Your first priority is to make your home a safe space where they can discuss anything. Gently check in to see what specific aspects of school life are causing them distress. Always prioritize their wishes, and decide together if and when it is the right time to inform the school.
(Source: Certified NPO ReBit)

Step 2: Establish Rules to Prevent “Outing”

When consulting with the school, the greatest risk is “outing”—the disclosure of a student’s identity without their explicit consent. Before meeting with school staff, sit down with your child and clarify the following boundaries.

[Information Sharing Checklist]

• Should the information be kept strictly between you and the homeroom teacher, or can it be shared with the grade-level head and the school nurse?
• Do they want to keep their identity completely private from their classmates?
• Which name (legal name or chosen name) should the school use for official printouts and parent-teacher meetings?

Step 3: Consult the School’s “Support Team”

Avoid placing the entire burden on the homeroom teacher. Request a meeting that includes the principal, vice principal, and school nurse to request coordinated support. Framing the conversation as, “How can the school as a whole support my child’s daily life?” ensures that the accommodations will remain in place even if the homeroom teacher transfers or the child moves to the next grade.

4. Fostering Peer Understanding and Planning for University

As a parent, it is helpful to look beyond daily school life and consider your child’s broader environment and future academic path.

The Role of Allies and Campus Initiatives

Having “Allies” (people who understand and support the LGBTQ+ community) on campus provides immense emotional support. Many schools are actively cultivating safer environments by stocking related literature in the school library or displaying posters in the nurse’s office that explicitly celebrate diversity, signaling to students that it is safe to ask for help.

The University Entrance Common Test and Higher Education

Options for higher education are also expanding. For instance, Japan Women’s University began accepting transgender women (students assigned male at birth whose gender identity is female) in the 2024 academic year, setting a precedent for other women’s colleges.
Furthermore, students can request special accommodations—such as specific testing room assignments—for the University Entrance Common Test and individual university exams based on their gender identity. Because these requests must be submitted several months in advance, communicate with your high school’s college counselor early in the process.
(Source: Japan Women’s University: Guidelines for All Women Learning Together)

5. What to Do If the School is Unsupportive

Not every school is prepared to respond immediately or appropriately. If conversations stall, here are alternative ways to move forward.

Tips for Constructive Communication

If the administration is hesitant, present the MEXT guidelines mentioned in Section 1. Maintain a stance of, “I want to work together with you to protect my child’s safety and peace of mind.” Avoiding emotional confrontation and basing your requests on the school’s own policy guidelines is often the most effective way to reach a solution.

Bringing in External Experts

If resolving the issue internally proves too difficult, consider leaning on the following professionals and organizations:

• School Counselors and School Social Workers: As designated professionals within the school system, they can act as objective mediators between parents and teachers.
• Local LGBTQ+ Support NPOs: Organizations like ReBit possess extensive experience navigating school administrations and can often provide the specific advice needed to break a deadlock.

6. Building an Inclusive School Environment Together

Providing accommodations for transgender students is not about “special treatment.” Cultivating an environment that embraces diverse gender identities—such as offering flexible uniform choices—ultimately helps create an environment where everyone can learn safely and comfortably.

When parents and teachers work hand in hand, prioritizing the best interests of the child, they help build a foundation where everyone can thrive. We hope this new school term becomes a positive and empowering step forward for your child.

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While these individual priorities are important, if you’re going to be a childcare worker, wouldn’t you like to work at a stylish nursery school at least once? Recently, the childcare industry has been evolving to meet modern needs.

Stylish facilities that are conscious of SDGs and aim for digitalization are emerging.

Moreover, many wonderful nursery schools have opened that are not only stylish but also implement initiatives that consider the future of children. This time, we’ll introduce the top 6 stylish nursery schools in Tokyo.

Top 6 Stylish Nursery Schools in Tokyo

There are numerous nursery schools in Tokyo, and among them, we’ve carefully selected the most stylish ones.

• Tokyo Child Welfare Association “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School”
• Tokokai Social Welfare Corporation “Shibuya Higashi Shizen no Kuni Children’s Center”
• ChaCha Children&Co. Social Welfare Corporation “Cha Cha Children Soshigayakoen”
• Urban Licensed Nursery School Popolar Tokyo Hibarigaoka
• Yumekobo Social Welfare Corporation “Yumehana Nursery School”
• Seirokai Social Welfare Corporation “Seseragi Nursery School”

Now, let’s introduce each nursery school in detail.

Tokyo Child Welfare Association “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School”

The fourth stylish nursery school in Tokyo is “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School” operated by the Tokyo Child Welfare Association. It’s a new nursery school that just opened in 2022.

The theme of “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School” is a nursery school that weaves the future through technology × water. The nursery school is located in Kasai, Edogawa Ward, Tokyo, where one characteristic is the many “water-friendly親水parks” in the vicinity. “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School” reflects this characteristic.

Throughout the facility, there are decorations inspired by water, with large digital signage installed at the entrance area, incorporating technology that projects natural elements onto the walls. Children are captivated every day by experiences that differ from other nursery schools! The facility provides an attractive environment that draws out interests and curiosity that lead to the future.

Not only the exterior but also the interior has a stylish design that’s captivating to behold.
The basic color scheme inside is white, with simple shelves and walls, resembling a designer’s apartment.

Once you step inside, a bright space filled with attention to detail spreads out.

Even the lighting has great ingenuity. The shape and color of the light bulbs and how the light is directed are all carefully designed to stimulate children’s curiosity. At night, the warm light emanating from the building makes an even more impressive sight.

The Tokyo Child Welfare Association, which operates “Kasai Departure Future Bound Nursery School,” is an organization with a long history and extensive childcare expertise. To realize a new child-rearing society, they jointly operate the facility with ONE ROOF Corporation.

They conduct many initiatives daily to realize the vision of creating a place where children, parents, staff, and everyone in the local community and society can laugh together under one roof, grow together, and nurture the power to create the future.

They aim for family-oriented childcare that becomes a “second home” for children. As a “big home,” children and staff interact like family. To respect each individual’s personality and independence, they were quick to introduce corner-based childcare and mixed-age childcare.

In addition to food education activities, they also conduct a “Sports Project” where children learn exercise and games from Olympians and other top athletes. Furthermore, they’re characterized by incorporating their own unique educational childcare curriculum that systematizes childcare guidance and independently developing digital educational toys.

 
The Tokyo Child Welfare Association is recruiting childcare workers. Not only are they recruiting full-time employees, but they also have a system in place that allows you to work with fixed areas and hours. It’s an environment where people with childcare or caregiving responsibilities can work with peace of mind.

Not only are the employee benefits comprehensive, but the allowances are also substantial. Utilizing their years of childcare expertise, they have established a system that allows childcare workers to continue working for a long time.

Senior staff members say the friendly atmosphere and the ability for childcare workers to cooperate with each other is attractive. There are also opportunities to deepen relationships with colleagues while taking a break from work, such as company clubs and recreation activities, allowing for fulfillment in your private life as well.

Tokokai Social Welfare Corporation “Shibuya Higashi Shizen no Kuni Children’s Center”

The second stylish nursery school in Tokyo is “Shibuya Higashi Shizen no Kuni Children’s Center” operated by Tokokai Social Welfare Corporation.

The location is on the former railway track site connecting Shibuya Station and Daikanyama Station. It’s a nursery school characterized by a narrow alley-like exterior that blends naturally with the stylish cityscape.

They value “being here and creating various encounters.” “Shibuya Higashi Shizen no Kuni Children’s Center” aims to be a place that serves as a refuge for both children and adults.

At “Shibuya Higashi Shizen no Kuni Children’s Center,” they call some of their events “festivals.” For example, one distinctive event is the “Children’s Art Museum.”

They call the place where they showcase works created from the traces born in everyday life the “Children’s Art Museum.” It’s wonderful how they provide meticulous care that values the process of creating works.

Also, despite being in the urban area of Tokyo, they often go to nearby parks and provide many opportunities to interact with nature. In summer, they use the cool morning hours to play with water at nearby parks.

 
Meanwhile, regarding job recruitment, they are recruiting for April 2023 employment. Not only are the employee benefits comprehensive, but with 120 annual holidays, it’s an environment where you can work with a good balance between work and private life.

It’s also nice that there are weekday substitute holidays when working on Saturdays. There are many cases of staff taking maternity and childcare leave, and the environment is set up so that you can work for a long time with peace of mind, with options like shortened working hours and fixed work schedules available after returning. Bonuses are given three times a year (last year’s performance). The training system is also comprehensive, making it a recommended nursery school for childcare workers who want to advance their careers, such as aiming for management positions in the future.

ChaCha Children&Co. Social Welfare Corporation “Cha Cha Children Soshigayakoen”

The third stylish nursery school in Tokyo, “Cha Cha Children Soshigayakoen,” is a nursery school operated by ChaCha Children Social Welfare Corporation.

“Cha Cha Children Soshigayakoen,” which opened in 2017, is located in one corner of the spacious Soshigaya Park. The location is so attractive—despite being in the urban area of Setagaya Ward, Tokyo, children can interact with nature throughout the four seasons every day.
The stylish school building is pure white like a canvas. It won the 2017 Kids Design Award/School Building Design Award and has a refined design. There are many environments set up to nurture children’s sensibilities, such as the “ChaCha Cafe,” a cafe space where children, parents, and childcare workers can relax, and a kitchen where meals can be served while looking at each other’s faces.

Also, ChaCha Children&Co. Social Welfare Corporation carefully nurtures the children 〈ChaCha Children〉 who spend time at each facility under the concept of “Creating the Children’s Future.” The “&Co.” in the corporation name is an abbreviation for “and company.”

It also embodies the wish to be a community space consisting of various people in society, such as childcare workers, parents, and local residents, centered around children. They are also committed to SDGs initiatives.

They display original tapestries and make visual efforts to make it easy and familiar for children to understand.

 
ChaCha Children&Co. Social Welfare Corporation is recruiting childcare workers who can recognize not only children but also everyone’s diverse values. You’ll surely be attracted to the warm childcare filled with many commitments.

They provide many learning opportunities, such as overseas training to visit educational facilities in Europe and comprehensive training CCC (Chacha Culture Club) where all staff working at ChaCha Children learn together. People of a wide range of ages work there, and it’s a workplace where work-life balance is easy to maintain. They are recruiting childcare workers who want to be excited about daily childcare where they can utilize their individual personalities.

Urban Licensed Nursery School Popolar Tokyo Hibarigaoka

The fourth stylish nursery school in Tokyo is Urban Licensed Nursery School Popolar Tokyo Hibarigaoka.

It’s a facility opened on the 1st and 2nd floors of the common building within the large-scale condominium “City Terrace Hibarigaoka,” where children can spend time freely in a green, rich environment.
The childcare room has a sense of openness due to its fully glass-fronted design, and on the terrace on the 2nd floor, children can play in the water during summer♪
The front of the facility is on Keyaki Street, with many parks nearby, allowing children to fully enjoy outdoor play.

 
Urban Licensed Nursery School Popolar Tokyo Hibarigaoka is recruiting both full-time employees and part-time workers.
With “Solo Education ~I Can Do It Properly By Myself~” as the childcare concept, they actively conduct activities and events that nurture children’s ability to think for themselves, develop proper recognition, and build confidence.
Various working styles are available according to lifestyle changes (choice of 108 or 122 annual holidays), and you can work in your own way.

Yumekobo Social Welfare Corporation “Yumehana Nursery School”

The fifth stylish nursery school in Tokyo is “Yumehana Nursery School” operated by Yumekobo Social Welfare Corporation.

Despite being located in Meguro Ward, Tokyo, once you pass through the entrance, a space spreads out that is bathed in warm sunlight. It’s surrounded by a quiet residential area. The bright glass-fronted school building is impressive.

Among other things, the childcare that allows children to enjoy primary experiences using all five senses is distinctive. Many childcare workers may be attracted to the ingenious childcare content.

They believe that various real experiences cultivate a rich heart, and value sensation and expression, with one characteristic being the respect for children’s independence and care that stays close to them.

Even with a single picture book, they let children choose what picture book they want to see. It’s an environment designed so that children can make their own choices in various situations.

The school building where you can feel the warmth of wood, the spacious balcony, the lawn-covered playground with stylish play equipment different from other facilities. On the well-ventilated rooftop, there’s large play equipment and a slide. And there’s even a rare “foot bath” for a nursery school.

Of course, in summer, it’s an environment where children can fully enjoy water play. The lunch room has a glass-fronted kitchen, with ingenuity that makes food feel close by.

When children become part of the older class, it becomes buffet-style, with a system that allows them to feel the joy of eating while further valuing their enthusiasm for food.

 
Yumekobo Social Welfare Corporation is recruiting both new graduate and mid-career childcare workers. The slogan is “Play more and more, think more and more, and expand your dreams!”

Since they operate nursery schools nationwide, salaries and employee benefits are stable. Many staff members take maternity and childcare leave every year, and after returning, they can use shortened working hours and fixed work schedules.

It’s easy to return to work, and an environment is set up where you can work for a long time while building your career. Of course, they also utilize the housing rental support program, supporting childcare workers living alone for the first time.

Seirokai Social Welfare Corporation “Seseragi Nursery School”

The sixth stylish nursery school in Tokyo is “Seseragi Nursery School” operated by Seirokai Social Welfare Corporation. It’s a nursery school located in Kiyose City, Tokyo, surrounded by abundant greenery.

The school building uses plenty of wood and is filled with the warmth of wood. And it’s not just the school building that feels warm. Amazingly, most of the playground equipment in the spacious playground is made of wood.

The play equipment designed with children in mind has many mechanisms that develop play. Many play equipment pieces that adults can enjoy together are installed, such as a large symbolic log house and athletics using plenty of logs.

In the nature-filled playground, children can feel the changes of the four seasons with their skin. It’s an environment where they can always feel nature close by.

“Seseragi Nursery School’s” childcare values the power of the heart (non-cognitive abilities). The power of the heart (non-cognitive abilities) refers to children’s abilities that cannot be gained through study, such as a kind heart that cares about people in trouble, the power to persevere without giving up, and the power to think about how to accomplish things.

They nurture children’s hearts through various experiences from childcare, food education, wood education, and education.

 
“Seseragi Nursery School” is recruiting childcare workers. Similar to their childcare philosophy, it’s a perfect workplace for childcare workers who want to value “nurturing the heart” and “nurturing oneself” together.

They’ve introduced anniversary leave and other benefits, with comprehensive employee benefits. And the bonuses are at a high level within the industry. An environment that properly recognizes your hard work also leads to job satisfaction.

It’s a recommended stylish nursery school for childcare workers who want to grow together with children in nature filled with the warmth of wood.

Choosing a Nursery School is Important for Childcare Workers Too

How you choose the nursery school where you work is a very important matter. Everyone has different points they want to prioritize.

However, finding a nursery school that matches your ideal is not easy. One key to success in choosing a nursery school is to prioritize what you value most.

Also, searching for a nursery school requires a lot of effort. For childcare workers who are searching for a new job while working, it can be extremely difficult with limited time…

In such cases, it’s also important to consider methods for job hunting. For example, it’s good to rely on people, such as recruitment agency companies that help you search for a new job together, or consulting with acquaintances who are childcare workers.

Some people may be hesitant about recruitment agencies. However, most companies these days can be used for free.

And there are many systems that allow you to consult casually without worrying about time through applications like LINE. If you feel limited in the information gathering you can do on your own, we recommend considering this option at least once.

Summary

This time, we introduced six nursery schools. All of the nursery schools were stylish and full of charm, weren’t they?

When thinking about changing jobs, many people may think “It seems difficult…” Job hunting requires time and effort.

However, if you’re going to change jobs anyway, you want to choose a nursery school without regrets, right? Although job hunting comes with difficulties, if you don’t give up, you’ll surely find a nursery school that suits you.

For childcare workers interested in stylish nursery schools, Tokyo has many stylish nursery schools. Please use this as a reference when considering changing jobs.

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